Monday, January 10, 2011

Be nothing

Sometimes, when you are trying to be the perfect mother, you just have to be nothing. Today, my daughter had her friend come over and they hung out. I was there. I provided dinner. I was silent. She left at 9:30. Her parents didn't say thank you. Neither did she. My daughter came to my room, I was reading "Girl With the Dragon Tatoo." She said, "Your hands are so soft." I was rubbing her back. She went to bed.

My thought is this...I'm trying to be a great mom. On any given day, I don't accomplish anything.
But I'm always trying.

My daughters can only benefit from the trying..